Glossary of Escort Abbreviations: GFE, DFK, DATY, body-body… Explained Simply

GFE, DFK, DATY, body-body, facesitting… Escort ads and salon listings are full of abbreviations—often in English—that can be confusing when you’re just starting out. This glossary explains them simply, category by category, with a link to the XoXo escorts who offer each service. One rule applies to everything below: at the club, condoms are mandatory, and no high-risk acts are permitted, regardless of the abbreviation.

Match Formats

Words that describe where, how, and for how long you meet a hostess.

In-callMeeting in the living room

You’ll be greeted by a hostess: XoXo is one of two clubs in the Plainpalais neighborhood of Geneva. The entrance is unobtrusive; you’ll be introduced to the hostesses, offered a complimentary drink, and then escorted to a private room. Discover the club →

OutcallOutdoor meeting

The hostess comes to you: hotel, residence, or apartment. In Geneva, she arrives in casual attire, without any distinctive markings. Escort at the hotel →

GFEGirlfriend Experience

The “one-night stand”: intimacy, kisses, conversation, cuddling—just like a real date. This is the most popular service in French-speaking Switzerland. Hostesses who offer this service →

PSEPornstar Experience

The opposite of a GFE: an intense, no-nonsense encounter inspired by adult films. Fast-paced and featuring a variety of positions. Hostesses who offer this →

DuoA Date with Two Hostesses

Two hostesses will welcome you together. The rate is the sum of their individual rates. Hostesses who offer this service →

CoupleMeeting with a couple

The hostess welcomes a couple—a man and a woman—for a threesome. Hostesses who offer this service →

VIPVIP Service

High-end companionship: dinner, evening out, overnight stay, or travel, with a hostess experienced in events. Hostesses who offer this service →

DinnerLunch or dinner with a companion

A meal out at a restaurant before—or instead of—the date. Discretion and elegance are a must. Hostesses who suggest this →

NightFull night

The "NIGHT Date" package: The hostess stays with you until morning. Must be booked in advance. See rates →

Pre-bookingReservation for a future hostess

Book an escort listed as “coming soon” online before she arrives. At XoXo, this saves you CHF 10.– when you arrive. Escorts coming soon →

Abbreviations in Classified Ads

Most of them come from English. Here's what they mean, and what XoXo does or doesn't offer.

DFKDeep French Kiss

Deep kissing, with the tongue. At XoXo, the "French Kiss" label indicates which hostesses are open to it. Hostesses who offer it →

FKFrench Kiss

A kiss on the mouth, lighter than a deep French kiss. Hostesses who offer it →

BJBlowjob

Oral sex. Always safe at the show. Hostesses who offer it →

CBJCovered Blow Job

Oral sex with a condom: that's the rule at XoXo. Hostesses who offer it →

Bareback Blowjob

Also known as OWO (“Oral Without”). Not practiced at XoXo: condoms are required, and no high-risk acts are permitted.

OWOOral Without

Same as: Not practiced at XoXo: Condoms are required, and no risky acts are permitted.

BBFSBare Back Full Service

Unprotected sex. Not practiced at XoXo: condoms are required, and no high-risk acts are permitted.

DTDeep Throat

Deep throat. Hostesses who offer it →

DATYDining at the Y

Cunnilingus: Pleasure given to a hostess with the mouth. Hostesses who offer it →

DATODining at The O

Rimming. The labels specify whether the hostess gives it or receives it. Hostesses who receive it → who give it →

69Position 69

Mutual and simultaneous oral pleasure. Hostesses who offer this →

HJHand Job

Handjob. Hostesses who offer this service →

RussianTit-fuck

Masturbation between the breasts. The ads sometimes say “Russian” or “Spanish.” Hostesses who offer this service →

COFCum on Face

Facial. Hostesses who offer it →

COBCum On Body

Ejaculation on the body. Hostesses who offer this →

MSOGMultiple Shots on Goal

Multiple ejaculations during the session, time permitting. Escorts who offer this →

A-LevelAnal

Anal sex. At XoXo, the labels distinguish between “receives” and “gives” (with a toy). Hostesses who receive it → who give it →

DPDouble penetration

Simultaneous vaginal and anal penetration, with a partner or a sex toy. Escorts who offer this service →

ToysSex toys

Sex toys used during the encounter. Hostesses who offer them →

RPRole-Play

Role-playing: nurse, secretary, student… whatever scenario you like. Hostesses who offer it →

StripStriptease

A slow, sensual striptease to kick off the encounter. Hostesses who offer this →

LingerieFine Lingerie

The hostess welcomes you in lingerie, often at your request. Hostesses who offer this service →

SquirtSquirting woman

Female ejaculation. Hostesses who offer it →

FacesittingSitting on the face

The hostess sits on your face. It's a blend of sensual play and gentle domination. Hostesses who offer this →

Coffee and PipeSpeed Dating

A short service package, limited to oral sex, often offered as a special. Hostesses who offer this service →

Gang / OrgyGroup Encounter

Multiple participants. Must be arranged in advance with the front desk. Hostesses who offer this service →

TS / TVTranssexual, cross-dresser

TS refers to a transgender hostess, and TV refers to a cross-dresser. At XoXo, each profile clearly indicates this.

Massages

From a simple relaxation massage to a body-to-body massage: what the names you see on our listings mean.

Erotic MassageSensual Massage

Oil massage with a sensual element, unrelated to anything else. The starting point for all the others. Hostesses who offer it →

Body-to-bodyHand-to-hand

The masseuse slides her oiled body against yours. Hostesses offering this service →

TantraTantric Massage

Slow pace, breathing, energy: a more meditative massage focused on relaxation. Therapists who offer this treatment →

NaturistNude massage

The massage therapist and client are naked during the massage. Hostesses who offer this service →

ProstateProstate massage

Internal prostate massage, performed by an experienced massage therapist. Hostesses who offer this service →

Anti-stressRelaxing Massage

Classic massage to relieve tension, with a sensual finale at the therapist's discretion. Therapists who offer this service →

LingamMale Genital Massage

Tantric term: a slow, mindful massage of the penis, without any focus on performance.

Four-HandedFour-Hand Massage

Two massage therapists at the same time. Please request this when making your reservation.

BDSM, Domination, and Fetishism

Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism. At XoXo, everything is negotiated in advance, with a safe word, and nothing puts your health at risk.

Soft DominationGentle Domination

Commands, light spankings, power play without any real pain. Perfect for beginners. Hostesses who offer this →

Hardcore DominationIntense Domination

More extreme scenarios: humiliation, controlled pain, severe bondage—always supervised. Hostesses who offer these services →

SubmissiveSubmissive hostess

You're in charge: the hostess assumes a submissive role, within the agreed-upon limits. Hostesses who offer this →

BondageRestraints and ties

Ropes, handcuffs, silk ties: to restrain or be restrained. Hostesses who offer this →

SuspensionsSuspension Bondage

The body is partially or completely suspended by ropes. For experienced dominatrixes only. Hostesses who offer this service →

ConfinementCage, closet, restraint

To be confined, isolated, and restricted from movement for a set period of time. Hostesses who offer this service →

StraightjacketsRestraint with a straitjacket

A form of restraint: a straitjacket or a restraint bag.

Active SpankingThe hostess gives the spanking

By hand, with a riding crop, or with a paddle. Hostesses who offer this →

Passive SpankingThe hostess gets spanked

You give, she receives, as agreed. Hostesses who offer this service →

HumiliationVerbal or physical humiliation

Insults, degrading orders, humiliating scenarios—all consensual. Hostesses who offer it →

FeminizationForced cross-dressing

The hostess dresses you, applies your makeup, and treats you like a woman. This is often referred to as “sissification.” Hostesses who offer this service →

Cross-dressingCross-dressing

Wearing women's clothing during the encounter, for pleasure, without any element of domination.

FetishismFeet, leather, latex, lingerie…

Highlighting an object or a body part that particularly turns you on. Hostesses who offer this →

TramplingTrampling

The hostess steps on you, whether barefoot or in heels. Hostesses who offer this →

Candle GamesHot wax

Low-temperature candle wax poured onto the skin. Hostesses who offer this service →

Medical GamesClinical Scenario

Exams, gloves, instruments: the medical setting. Receptionists who offer it →

Erotic EnemaEnema

Personal hygiene turned into a game of domination. Hostesses who offer this →

ShavingIntimate Shaving

The hostess shaves you—or lets you shave her—as a ritual of submission. Hostesses who offer this service →

Urology / Golden ChampagneUrinary Games

"Golden champagne" refers to urine in erotic play. The label specifies what the hostess is willing to do. Hostesses who offer this → Urology →

Caviar / ScatophiliaScatological games

A rare practice, referred to as “active” or “passive” depending on the role. Available only with hostesses who indicate this preference. Hostesses who offer this →

FistingPenetration with the hand

The labels distinguish between “gives” and “receives.” Hostesses who give it → who receive it →

Orgasm DeprivationOrgasm control

The hostess brings you to the brink of pleasure and then withholds it for as long as she chooses. Hostesses who offer this →

ExhibitionTo show oneself

Reveal yourself to the hostess or at an agreed-upon location.

VoyeurismWatching

Watch the hostess, either alone or with a partner, without participating. Hostesses who offer this →

No sexSession without intercourse

Some dominatrixes do not offer sexual intercourse: the session is solely about domination. Hostesses who do offer it →

Vocabulary Related to the Field in Switzerland

Terms you'll come across on Swiss websites and at our trade shows.

ExhibitionAdult Expo

A legally operating establishment where several hostesses work. In Geneva, this activity is regulated by the law on prostitution; XoXo operates two salons in Plainpalais. The salon →

FreelancerOff-show hostess

She works for herself, either from home or on the go. XoXo features a selection of verified freelancers. Freelancers →

AvailableAvailable today

On an XoXo profile, “Available” means that the hostess is at the lounge that day. Available now →

Coming SoonAnnounced arrival

The hostess will be arriving in the next few days; you can already make a reservation for her.

Back SoonHostess away

She has left and will return. You can request to be notified when she returns.

Special Offer / Deal of the MonthDiscounted Rate

Discounted prices for a limited time, often on upcoming events. Promotions →

Loyalty StampRewards Program

Every visit counts: 50% off on your 7th visit, your 15th visit is free—no card required. The program →

TWINTSwiss mobile payment

Accepted at the show at no charge, just like cash. Credit cards are subject to an additional fee.

DepositReservation Deposit

A small deposit paid online to reserve a time slot, which will be deducted from the total price when you arrive.

Frequently Asked Questions